A Story Of Sexual Assault

Personally, my shaving habit has caused me undue stress when it comes to my sexual-assault related PTSD. The constant fear that I am plagued by an undiagnosed STI meant that I was routinely engaging in shaving my pubic area, so I could whip out my handy-dandy pocket mirror and survey the area.

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Jeremie Saunders
Solo Poly: A Free Agent

This concept of SoloPoly where you get to keep your independence and have a loving and committed relationship is the best of everything for me. I prefer to throw caution and societal expectations to the winds and create my own expectations.

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Jeremie Saunders
Shame: Stressed Out About Sex

It went from a cascade of sexual experiences waiting for me around every bend to a slow drip. Now my sporadically grouped encounters are hyper-controlled failures followed by awkward explanations and hasty exits.

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Jeremie Saunders
Everybody Else Wants Sex, I'd Be Good With Cake

 As much of a relief as discovering the hidden depths of asexuality has been, it's also been a struggle to find exactly what kind of asexual I am. What kind? Not the only type portrayed by media; the guy who prefers his interests over girls or the girl who just sits in a corner all day with her books and tells boys to go away.

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Jeremie Saunders
From Rags to Riches, or How I Found My Clít

If you want to hear more about my tale of a spunky former super-Christian who was beaten down by bad sex and a repressive patriarchal upbringing, how I rose from the ashes to discover where my clit was ACTUALLY located and to finally be pronounced a freak in the sack (while also cultivating my feminist ideals) then you should take a listen.

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Jeremie Saunders
The Flood Gates Have Opened - NSFW

Due to a traumatic experience in my younger years, I suffer with a tremendous amount of anxiety. [...] Ten years later, I am now experiencing the side effects. Sexual triggers, insecurities & uncomfortable experiences that have pushed me to explore myself on a deeper level. 

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Jeremie Saunders
What do I know?

I don’t think my hesitation on the subjects of sex and gender is atypical. I’m sure there are some folks out there like me who participate only as a silent listener when a conversation broaches that territory.

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Jeremie Saunders